>>532By consuming yourself and the world as you see fit.
Sadly I can't tell you what exactly that entails, but a good thing to start is just reflecting on what you generally like to do, what you don't like to do but have to do, why you have to, and then if you really even have to do it at all.
That doesn't mean you don't have to challenge yourself tho, tbh trying to sort your life in such a way is really hard and tiresome at the beginning, but it pays off later ones you have busted all the spooks in your life.