No.12539
Consider the following:
"Incel" is normal person/feminist rhetoric terminology to frame a group of individuals, the correct term is virgin and the correct internet term is wizard. Every anon should refrain from use this term, for it is a huge fuarrrking spook.
Relationships are practically irrelevant because having babies is not the main mechanism to make mankind survive in nature anymore. This was only a thing before total population hit a billion.
Romance is an unnecessary dramatization of natural mating behavior and a massive psyops, perhaps THE psyops. The populace is incredibly distracted by peer drama and this sort of theme, so if you wonder where the general retardation and confusion comes from, remember this pattern.
Don't get buttmad about general neomonkey behavior, we are all despicable and opportunists by default, it's mother nature's social hardcoded programming for primates. Every animal searches for some sort of benefit in their partners.
The fact that human mating relies so heavily on non verbal communication strongly suggests that the social rules that engines that stems strictly from animal behavior, and this is very very reinforced by society. Plain and simple verbal signals have no space in human mating, which is curious, since we are the only species on Earth who have invented/developed verbal abilities to communicate efficiently, and society discards this superpower as a viable vector of mating.
Being rejected by females means literally nothing in current times (beyond sentimental behavior), society became deeply dehumanized and void of grounding. Mating patterns became a reminiscence of our ancestors' logic of survival, similarly to anxiety and pointless panic.
I believe we should overcome this mass of noise, confusion and retardation and start treating mating ritually and pragmatically. Of course this won't happen, so I just sow the benefits of having an actual relationship while not caring much for it beyond what actually matters to maintain it. I am extremely lucky I found a partner almost as sperg as myself. Didn't do the whole default mating process volatile rituals to "conquer" a female, and I believe no one with respectable intelligence should subject to this. It would be more sensible to remain a virgin or to pay a professional. I really don't understand how it's possible for a person to be an "involuntary" celibate if sex is the main focus here. Literally just pay a hooker. You can only still be a virgin if you value the standard social mating process or if you follow a religion that sabotages your very condition, and in this framework, you're the only one to blame.