>>11091>>11514no contradiction
there are marriages with love and for economic reasons
there are marriages with love that dont consider economic reasons
there are marriages without love at all
there are different kinds of love
there are even different kinds of romantic love
most marriages are "arranged marriages" so to speak and that doesnt say much about the presence or absence of love
you can start a partnership without feeling love and develop love over time
you can start a partnership with burning passion and have it fade away completely, these things are not so obvious or clear cut, the heart is fickle