/R9K/ - Robot - 9000

idk but what if i cradle rob, (no pedo), then what

Is dating idealist? You don't know for sure if a relationship is gonna work out, so how do you investigate that materially?

>>6931
You should see a shrink of you really don't know.

ruh, this is how dating is for any male, regardless of age.
Stop treating age thirty as a paradigm shift.
Its a sign youve been living as an extended child.

>>6931
Romantic love is idealist.
Dating originated as a marketing scheme to find rich suitors for debutantes.

Nah, women can make their own money and can have careers so it's not so important, if anything those material assets are for younger women who want a sugar daddy and females who lack a sense of self who cannot judge a mans personality to distinguish their worth other than superficially

If you're having issues with that, just fake being poor or pretend to be thrifty on the first dates. Weeds em right out

>>6933
After high school it's all down hill
. 30 is just an arbitrary age.

>>6943
>High school is the peak of life
>Adulting is too hard

This mentality is why society is getting weaker.
Contrary to Hollywood, teenage years arent a kumbiya phase.

>>6944
Sure it's not as smooth as people romanticize it to be, but it beats adult life for the majority of people

>>6946
Yet still, people hate children, pathologising them as cringe and dumb.
Any sort of positive public attention given to kids is automayically criticised.

Most of our metaphorical terms for faux pas uses children.
"childish", "infantile", "adolescent"

>>6946
Also, if you adult life sucks more than your teenage life, something is wrong with you.
You either have no life skills or you got into a serious accident which left you physically, financially, and psychologically dismembered.

Gen X and Millennials have normalised nihilistic sentiment about work too much.
Knowing the average postmodern person, its more likely they have no life skills.

>>6952
And they always say that high school/college are the best years…
>>6953
This is a cope, modern adult life is terrible, with or without life skills.

>>6962
If high school/collefe are thebes years, why the pathological hatred for teenagers then?

Also, modern adult life is much smoother than adult life even tow centiroes ago where ypu had to go work in a factory for pennies a day or be a peasant-farmer harrassed by prospectors and interlopers.

Again, Generation X and Millennials are too averse to basic responsibility.

I'm 45 with no children. I am short so I was invisible to even fat ham planets during my prime years.
Honestly dating isn't bad for me. I have a lot of desperate roasties in my age bracket always eyeing me like a steak dinner because they know having a high income earner with no obligations would be a huge windfall for them and their children. And I could repair the neglect in their own dysfunctional children since my attention isn't divided.
But I don't even entertain that possibility with them. It makes some of them mad and I've been called "picky" numerous times. But really it's just that most of these women's lives are derelicts that would drain all my money and soul trying to fix it.
I mostly sugar now. So I "date" hot and young sex workers. I'm not under any allusion that these women "love" me but it's nice to have a women that know you personally and will give you sex without ridiculous amounts of games and hoops to jump through.