>>6706I've ranted about this before.
I thought one of my comrades was a fucking rapist for 2 years. TWO YEARS. Because he allegedly did violence to his ex-fuck buddy.
I just found out, like 3 days ago that the violence was expressing sadness that the fuck buddy didn't want to fuck anymore.
… seriously. this shit is poisonous as fuck. Now whenever I hear that a girl experienced violence I'll have no choice but to ask for a lot of detail and approach it with skepticism. Which is entirely terrible for people who do actually experience violence.
Minimizing violence and sexual assault as well as exaggerating it is pretty poisonous. Fuck!