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 No.1670[Last 50 Posts]

its the fist time ive made a friend who's a girl (female) in my 19 years of age, turns out it wasnt that hard. Im still afraid of women though

am i winning?
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 No.1671

did you fuck her?
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 No.1672

>>1670
How did you do it and is there any chance of sexo?
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 No.1682

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>>1671
>>1672
no kys, she's a 4/10 face but 7/10 body, either way i'm not going to fuck up one of the few friendships ive made for some coom
though if she wants i aint saying no
>How did you do it
i attend an afternoon hobby/course thingy where people do different activities because i'm lonely as shit, it's mostly old people but she's the only one my age so we started talking, i got her number and we see each other almost every day, we crack jokes and talk and are just in a similar vibe. been a month and i'm confident enough to call her a friend.
simple as
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 No.1687

>>1670
>>1682
Jesus, this is sad. Thank God I quit being a pretensious faggy leftoid, or that would probably be my existence as well.
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 No.1690

>>1687
thank you anon
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 No.1695

>>1682
Congrats anon. It sounds like something that could turn into a relationship if you both want it. Just promise to not leave us if that happens..
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 No.1698

Depends, is the relationship 100℅ reciprocating? Is she helping you find a gf, cause she knows you're lonely. If not you're a simp.
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 No.1701

>>1698
Be careful about taking relationship advice from leftychan. A solid proportion of guys here couldn't get laid to save their lives and are in no position to offer good advice about relationships or women.

As with anything in life, figure out what goals you want to achieve, then listen to people who have achieved those goals already (and preferably who have also helped other people achieve those goals). Ruthlessly but politely ignore the rest, since they naturally give terrible and misguided advice.
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 No.1702

>>1698
No retard, she's just as lonely as me, she even told me about her suicid3 attempt. she was even the one who initiated contact with me i was skeptical at first
>>1695
i don't wanna force it though i don't even know if i like her. i just know theres a connection
>>1701
true
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 No.1703

>>1701
>listen to people who have achieved those goals already (and preferably who have also helped other people achieve those goals).
redpilltard can't help but shill his courses lol
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 No.1706

>>1701
Be careful of advice from nearcels like Captain Save A How here. While it's true they occasionally get sex, they are still not getting anywhere near the sex chad is and are being kept as clean up men for when a roastie inevitable had to get off the cock carousel. They try to avoid having to reconcile their exploitation of roasties leading them on by white knighting for them. Telling themselves that they're nothing like the incels they pillory.
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 No.1707

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>>1702
>No retard, she's just as lonely as me, she even told me about her suicid3 attempt.
Dude this is classic narcissistic behavior, they tell you something horrible like this to obligate you into supporting them. It is most likely not true and even of it is she needs treatment by a pro, not an emotional tampon like you.
People do not tell you deeply personally things like this to people they don't know. Run away now, she will sabotage any chance at any future relationship you may have with someone else.
Just test it by telling her you're going overseas to get a wife. If she thinks you're about to get into an actually reciprocating relationship that she can't sabotage she will drop you like a hot potato.
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 No.1710

OP try get her naked and check for tattoos.
Tattoos only for pump n dump, worst she can be in a gang. Take care and stay vigilant.
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 No.1711

>>1707
First I thought they are speaking hungarian or something, but nah, they are just brits.
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 No.1712

>>1706
*exploitation by roasties
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 No.1737

Make those connections while you are young OP cause by the time you are my age (31) it becomes impossible.
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 No.1739

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Getting laid isn't hard

The 'trick' is simply not being a pussy fag.

This, however, is an insurmountable task for the leftist numale
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 No.1740

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>>1739
>t.
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 No.1741

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OP here, this might be growing into something more, I'll keep you updated
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 No.1744

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>>1741
OP NOO DONT DO IT IT WILL ONLY END IN DISASTER WOMEN ARE EVIL NOOOO!
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 No.1745

>>1744
>t. emotionally manipulative roastie
OP is dealing with a classic narcissist and it will ruin his life. Assuming OP isn't some LARPing tr00n
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 No.1746

>>1741
Yeah, you're growing into a simp. Don't you want a real relationship? With someone that wants you as much as you want them? Just travel max homie.
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 No.1748

>>1687
What does this even have to do with "the left"(TM)
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 No.1751

>>1744
cope
OP is an emotional tampon who will end up warming the bed for a Chad

I bet she has "Chad only" tattooed on her crotch
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 No.1752

>>1748
Women are turned off by equality and weak men, two things the left(tm) represents more than anything else.
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 No.1753

>>1752
Has never had sex in his life
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 No.1754

>>1753
*with a fat chick

Cope, faggot
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 No.1757

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>>1752
>he doesn't know
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 No.1759

>>1757
>There was equality in the Eastern Block.
Kek, it was just that everyone was poor so there was no one to monkey branch to. Guarantee party cadres were swimming in pus since under state capitalism they owned the MoP.
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 No.1760

>>1757
>We wuz east Germany n shiet (nasally voice)
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 No.1765

>>1757
>Totally not part of reproducibility crisis
This sounds like something some dork junior lecturer made up to impress freshman girls
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 No.1770

>>1759
>muh socialism is when poor
lib detected
>>1760
cope and seethe
>>1765
>sounds like something some dork junior lecturer made up
<posts on leftynig.net
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 No.1771

>>1770
>>muh socialism is when poor
>lib detected
>socialism is when the government owns things and the more it owns the socialist it is.
All state capitalists must hang.
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 No.1772

Socialism is actually when you're a NEET who believes the state should take over the role of parents.
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 No.1773

>>1771
>socialism is when strawman
dilate
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 No.1774

>>1773
Cope apple stealing twerp.
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 No.1793

>>1773
Kek
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 No.1795

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I FUCKING DID IT. I FUCKING DID IT BROS. WE KISSED AND MADE OUT I TOUCHED HER BOOBS AND ALL AAAAHHHOAHHFRQOEHKJSBRG WE HAVENT FUCKED YET BUT WE'RE ABOUT TO

shes officially my gf now. sorry i'm so happy
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 No.1796

>>1795
nobody cares

have fun cleaning after the Chad, twerp
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 No.1797

>>1796
Cope
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 No.1801

>>1795
You have the process backwards (sex 1st, then maybe a relationship), but good job nonetheless
>>1796
Ignore the spiteful mutant
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 No.1803

>>1795
Congrats OP!!!!
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 No.1804

>>1795
Well at least you got some play, but I'd still be weary OP.
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 No.1805

>>1795
Dude, you're dating a narcissist, this will not end well for you. Please keep us updated!
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 No.1806

>>1805
>I have low smv and zero social skills, therefore everyone else must also
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 No.1807

>>1806
>You have to accept an emotionally manipulative woman or you're a loser with a small pee pee.
Cope, OP can do better. It's always a bad idea to date damaged goods. Women need to learn to unpack their own baggage.
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 No.1808

>>1807
But you are a loser with a small pee pee…
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 No.1809

>>1808
No, because I don't listen to white knighting tr00ns like you.
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 No.1810

>>1809
So you do have a girlfriend who had a zero laycount before you…?
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 No.1811

>>1806
Cope. OP is a poor desperate beta that eats out of the Chad's trash bin.
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 No.1812

>>1811
We're talking about you now. Do you have a girlfriend? What was her notch count before hooking up with you? What's her relationship with her dad and family like?

Or are you the type of guy who's too alpha to settle down with a borefriend. In that case, how many chicks have you pulled on day2s this year? Any same day lays?

You seem like an expert with women (and definitely not like a spiteful stunted faggot), so I'm hoping you can tell us more about qualifications in this area. That way, we can all know how valuable your advice is and what sort of results we can expect if we listen to you.
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 No.1823

>>1810
I never said anything about notch count cunt. I said he's bad because she's clearly a narcissist like you are. That's why your panties are in a wad about me saying so. It identify with her.
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 No.1824

>>1823
*I said she's bad because
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 No.1825

>>1823
*You identify with her.
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 No.1827

>>1823
So that's a no for both a trad girlfriend and for spinning plates?
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 No.1829

>>1827
>implying what was never implied.
Cope and seethe tr00n
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 No.1831

>>1829
Oh, so you're not successful with women…?

I guess I'll treat your advice similar to how I'd treat health advice from a fat positivity activist. Any other areas of life that you're massively incompetent in that you'd like to share your opinions on?
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 No.1840

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>>1831
>Oh, so you're not successful with women…?
Cope, I'm successful with women in the 3rd world. You'd know how easy it is overseas if you ever left your room, much less the country.
>Any other areas of life that you're massively incompetent in that you'd like to share your opinions on?
Haha, you're clearly triggered by the fact that I got you and OP's gf pegged as narcissists.
Even if your cope about me being an incel were true it wouldn't make dating a narcissist any less foolish.
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 No.1848

>>1840
Oh, so you currently live in a place like Asia or Latin America - and in the shittier part, suppose? Good for you, I guess.
<It sounds like he goes on sex tourism vacations and deludes himself into believing he's not simply a low smv whoremonger. The Thai girls who speak English for no apparent reason have been stuffed by every third backpacker on Khoa San road btw. Maybe instead of being a whoremonger, he's getting international pan European leftovers instead?

>Muh narcissism, muh never leave room
Projection

Bạn bê đê và ế bởi vì tính cách của bạn là gãy (the Google translate is a bit off but close enough lol)
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 No.1852

>>1848
>White burger thinks the only place dub 8 men can pull women is in Thailand
My gender fluid friend, please look at a map. There's a whole world south of the border. The more you talk the more it's clear that you've never lived outside your sheltered suburb much less outside the country.
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 No.1853

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>>1848
You're just moving the goalposts again. First I was an incel, now I'm just a whoremonger that always pays for dates. Homie I've been approached on numerous occasions and the women wanted to pay.
The whole world doesn't buy into man hating feminism like you think. A lot of women appreciate a guy with a stable job that takes care of himself.
Next you'll let your racism slip out again and say they only want a green card. As if a poor women could never exercise her agency fully and consent to sex or marriage.
People like you are such hypocrites, you'll scream holy hell about Republicans wanting to ban the LGBTQ lifestyle but you feel perfectly entitled to meddle in the sex lives of sub 8 men.
Like damn niqqa, why do you care so much what I do in the bedroom. Touch grass.
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 No.1854

>>1848
>Projection
Cope ya little malignant narcissist.
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 No.1855

>>1852
Women from Latin America are ugly though. And I can't speak to all of Latin America, but Mexican chicks (besides being ugly af) are also hard core feminists and quite slutty.
I literally live in another country btw, guess you didn't pick up on that. but I haven't travelled to remote villages in the andes just to get laid. My bad.
Did your mom abuse you as a child by any chance?
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 No.1856

>>1855
>Women from Latin America are ugly though.
Lol, okay /pol/
>but Mexican chicks (besides being ugly af) are also hard core feminists
So don't date a Mexican
>I literally live in another country btw, guess you didn't pick up on that.
>I was only pretending to be retarded.
You're so good at it though.
>I haven't travelled to remote villages in the andes just to get laid. My bad.
>Everywhere outside the west is a backwards shithole
Common, you're American. This act is just way too convincing.
>Did your mom abuse you as a child by any chance?
No, that's why I'm not a doormat for western toasties like you.
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 No.1857

>>1856
No, I'm pretty well travelled and live abroad. I can say for certain that women in places like Mexico City (beyond themselves not being attractive), aren't impressed by a white guy with a job. Furthermore, there are parts of places like CDMX and Medellin that I can't even afford, let alone impress people just by having the right passport. (The whole First World/Third World divide doesn't really exist like it used to. Parts of America and Western Europe are absolute shitholes now, whereas parts of the 'global south' are soulless and overdeveloped)

So ya, it sounds like you are going to absolute backwater places to try to fuck impoverished girls, either through cheesy nongame or through paying for it.

And again, if you don't speak the local language of whatever country you're going to, youre basically fucking (if not prosties) the 5% of local girls who are infatuated with white guys. Talk about leftovers lol.

That said, this anon does generally have the right idea. Women outside of the west are less fat and have far more feminine personalities. Women from the US and Western Europe walk like sasquatch. But Mexican and Central American women look like literal trolls. Short, fat, hairy, big facial features (nice eyes though, IG). Fun in bed but simply not the easiest to look at.
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 No.1858

>>1857
Yeah BS, you can get laid for being a guerro much less an actual white person.
Mexico has some of the worst wealth inequality on earth so I'm not sure where you get the idea every woman in a Mexican city has money.
Sounds like you just have shitty socialization skills and can't make friends and be introduced to women via your network.
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 No.1859

>>1857
>But Mexican and Central American women look like literal trolls. Short, fat, hairy, big facial features (nice eyes though, IG). Fun in bed but simply not the easiest to look at.
You defo are not well traveled if you think that. Regardless, I'm not good looking myself so my looksmatch isn't going to be hot eithet. I just want a woman that's not obese, not crazy and doesn't have kids. And that's just too much to ask for from a Western woman.
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 No.1861

>>1859
Ya, America has a shitty dating market for men.
>That said, no one is going to magically fix things for you. No one is forcing you to stay in Burgerstan.
The onus is really in you to improve yourself. Not wasting money on sex tourism might be a good start. Instead, figure out a way to actually live abroad. Looksmaxxxing is just a no brainer. I expect the average leftoid to be so delusional and oversocialized that they honestly believe women 'should love them for who they are.' thus they tend to be faggy slobs. You sound a smarter than that though. Fix what you can, position yourself well in terms of location and logistics (you're not going to find attractive childless women in Iowa, and even third world refugees are going to be put off if you are 22+ and live at home - this is just common sense), have cool shit happening in your life (this one's kinda optional tbh), be fun, and have solid d game.
It sounds like the best thing you have going for you is really high standards. Now just ask yourself, what sort of dude gets the sort of chick I want. Then become that dude.
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 No.1862

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>>1859
>Be leftist
>Can't figure out why you can't find skinny childless trad gf
>Go to Mexico to swoop mestizos
>Still banging fat uggos with bad attitudes, but at least they're less high maintenance than the average white moid.
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 No.1867

>>1861
>The onus is really in you to improve yourself.
t. liberal
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 No.1868

>>1867
>the onus is one you to cry online about how women don't give you the sex you think you deserve
t. A leftist, I guess
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 No.1869

>>1868
>People who complain about the liberalism that is screwing them are cringe.
t. lib
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 No.1870

>>1868
1.) What standard are all these men failing to met. It's a rhetorical, these men are too poor for Western women. That's it.
2.) Why improve yourself if another woman will accept you as you are.
Seems very foolish, why make life harder on yourself for a woman that will still resent you because she couldn't net a Chad?
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 No.1871

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>>1868
>Be me
>Western women don't want to have sex with me.
>3rd world women do.
>Leave Western women alone to have sex with women that say they want me.
>This is pathetic and wrong somehow.
Please help me understand. How is throwing myself at Western women that have made it clear they are not interested good for me or even them?
Wouldn't continuing to pursue women that don't want me make me a creep?
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 No.1872

>>1871
Nah man. I'm more wondering why you haven't just moved abroad?
Also, imperialism is literally the only reason why third world women want you. If that's the case, why would you oppose imperialism?
Honest questions for both
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 No.1873

>>1872
>Nah man. I'm more wondering why you haven't just moved abroad?
It's the same reasons as always, work, school, family. All my roots are here.
>Also, imperialism is literally the only reason why third world women want you.
Real talk, this is thinly veiled racism and neo orientialism. If you ever traveled you'd know the entirety of the 3rd world's women isn't clamoring to marry a Western Man. It actually takes something of a unique women to want to leave behind everything they've known for a relationship. They're usually women that don't fit in with their own culture for one reason or another.
Why not try speaking to foreign nationals who are married to Western men and just let them tell you for themselves their reasons.
Also the INS ended the whole "get married for a green card" scheme decades ago.
They look up the asshole of you and your bride for seven to eight years and even then your ass can still get deported if they decide retroactively your scamming.
>If that's the case, why would you oppose imperialism?
>Getting married to a foreign national is imperialism.
You don't live in the real world buddy. It's ironic that the people most vocal about passport bros are Westerners, not 3rd world women or even 3rd world men. There's actual patriarchy in much of the 3rd world, when 3rd world women marry Western men they are imbued with right's and privileges they could never dream of in their home country.
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 No.1875

>>>1873
>Muh roots
Lame reasons. Once you finish school, everything else is an excuse
>Muh thinly veiled racism
No one cares except for dorky white guys whose sole sense of value comes from having the correct opinions
>You don't live in the real world buddy
Does one of the mods want to let him know where my IP address is coming from?
>Women in the 3rd world suffer from lepatriarchy
>Bitches in the first world won't date me because I'm not rich
Honestly, just not being a faggy sjw permavictim would help your life a lot
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 No.1876

>>1875
>No one cares except for dorky white guys whose sole sense of value comes from having the correct opinions
What I'm saying is the foundations of your politics are profoundly bullshit.
>Does one of the mods want to let him know where my IP address is coming from?
This Peruvian Anime Pillow Dating Forum isn't real life my fren.
>Honestly, just not being a faggy sjw permavictim would help your life a lot
Would help me be convenient to the liberal superstructure you'e defending maybe.
You still haven't answered my question, why should I seduce Western women that have told me to buzz off when other women will accept me?
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 No.1877

>>1876
Have you tried transmaxxxing?
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 No.1878

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>>1877
>Have you tried sterilizing yourself at the alter of liberalism.
You can have my privates when you pry them from my cold dead hands.
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 No.1879

>>1878
You're not using them for anything important anyways
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 No.1886

>>1872
>Also, imperialism is literally the only reason why third world women want you.
Imperialism is the reason why Western Women reject me. What is your point?
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 No.1888

>>1886
>Nothing is my fault or responsibility. I'm perfect just the way I am. Everyone else is either wrong or out to spite me. Or they are a narcissist.
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 No.1889

>>1888
Did you recycle your sodie pop cans and cardboard boxes today, anon?
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 No.1890

>>1889
Soda is for poor stupid people
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 No.1891

>>1890
Did you recycle your Soylent bottles and Amazon shipping boxes today, anon?
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 No.1892

>>1888
>Half of all men under 35 aren't having sex.
>Don't you know liberal capitalism is a meritocracy inkwell. If you're alone it's all your fault, sweaty, stop saying it's systemic. Only LoSeRs do that!
Ebin
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 No.1893

>>1888
>Accuses 3rd world women of having white fever because of imperialism
>Unknowingly implicates Western women in rejecting their looksmatch because of that same imperialism.
>Moves the goalposts to moral failings of men now.
Why are liberals like this.
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 No.1894

>>1879
>Make light of eugenics.
BASED MALTHUSIAN
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 No.1895

>>1891
>>1892
>>1893
>deranged samefag
touch pussy
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 No.1896

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>>1895
>>deranged samefag
Cope
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 No.2143

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well it's over. we just broke up for no real reason. she has to be bipolar or something

either way i don't really care. I'll keep you updated but i can tell you she's gonna come back and i will say no for being a dumb bitch

2 weeks. not that bad
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 No.2144

i apologize to everyone in this tread. you weren't that wrong
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 No.2145

>>2143
Your furst breakup is always tough OP. Did you at least get to séxø with her before it went to shit?
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 No.2146

>>2145
Yeah 3 times. we also made out like every day lol
>>2145
>Your furst breakup is always tough OP
Nah i'm just disappointed. i feel bad for her not for me she's too unstable and retarded. she had a chance.
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 No.2147

>>2143
I tried to warn you mate.
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 No.2148

>>2143
You dodged a bullet. It's fine to date women with baggage but they need to have handled that baggage BEFORE entering a relationship with you.
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 No.2149

>>2143
pray to the Gods that it happened so early

just imagine if you were stuck with her for 10+years lol

and remember padawan, BLACKPILL DOESN'T TAKE PRISONERS
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 No.2246

>>2143
Any news?
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 No.2832

can anyone made this into a thread simulator ?
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 No.4172

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LMFAOOO I forgot about this thread

>>2246
Well to keep it short, we actually came back together after a few weeks. I only really hated her for the first few days but then i couldn't resist when she tried to amend things with me (found out she emotionally cheated with this person who then tried to hit her up but she rejected, also she had a sui attempt during that time). Either way I didn't think much about it, she seemed stable and compromised and stuff and we were happy, until my sister and her had an argument and then she became paranoid my whole family hated her or smth and broke up again out of the blue

Fast forward to June, I reached out to her and the next day we were having SEXO & became partners again. She told me her mood swings change by the seasons and summers were usually stable. Which she was right, we were together for three months straight (the longest we had been), went to a few parties although none of us are really the party type tbh and also went on vacation together. Things were looking fine overall until September when out of the fucking blue she didn't respond to my call one day, and the next day she was breaking up over text. I told her that was an episode, that I was gonna give her a week to think about it but she just ghosted… I tried to reach out the next week to find out I was blocked (and still am), so alright, I gave up

TLDR; avoid bipolar bitches like the plague
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 No.4173

>>4172
Jeez anon. Considering the circumstances, your simping worked out in your favor.

If you would have pumped and dumped her, she'd probably still be obsessed with you.
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 No.4174

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Anyway this was my first relationship and I'm already traumatized like fuck. I came back to school last month so at least my mind is occupied with other stuff. Even if she reaches out (which i'm not sure, it's been more than a month already) I'm gonna ghost her, this time for real i swear FUCK OFF I'm such a retard. Now i realize how emotionally dependant i was on her during that time. I'm making friends again and this time for real for real don't want to go back there

Also, I know i should probably wait more time until getting into another relationship but fuck me i've found a golden opportunity. There's this classmate of mine i've only known for a month really but she seems to be interested in me and me in her, could be as a friend or whatever but hell that's how things always start. She isn't the type to have guy friends hell she only talks to me and another girls in class and does the usual subtle signs to me, laughing all the time, random looking, all that jazz. She could well be waiting for my move or not I don't fucking know she's too difficult to read

Should i go after her bros? or wait till my mind is at peace? I don't want her to be the rebound but also time passes and she could get bored of me i'm not sure how strong that interest really is. I've already missed opportunities like this in the past

I just want love
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 No.4175

>>4173
Yeah there's some positive side to it, i'm not that afraid of women anymore really and the sex was pretty good
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 No.4176

>>4174
>I'm already traumatized like fuck.
Stop this faggotry
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 No.4177

>>4176
Fuck off
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 No.4178

>>4174
>Anyway this was my first relationship and I'm already traumatized like fuck.
I TOLD YOU
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 No.4180

>>4172 (me)
Also funniest shit is that we live in virtually the same neighborhood, none of us go out a lot but i can tell some day im gonna bump into her and is gonna be awkward as fuck
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 No.4181

>>4180
Ignore her entirely. Don't glance at her. Don't read her messages if she sends one. In your mind, she should be a non entity
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 No.4216

Disturbingly raw thread.
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 No.4298

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>>4174
>fuck me i've found a golden opportunity
BROS BROS bros i just made huge progress. Luckily we were paired up in class for an activity and we were talking the entire hours, in between classes and even came back home together and exchanged numbers and all… Bros i can't help it but feel hopeful again… at least she seems mentally healthy which is sad i gotta say that
Also although im a manlet and she's around my height she doesnt seem to care you incels said i was doomed lmfao
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 No.4299

>>4298
Don't forget to keep momentum. If you don't ask her out in the next ten days maximum, you can consider the offer expired in most circumstances.
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 No.4893

>>4172
Ive dealt with a schizo bitch for three years.
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 No.4915

>>4893
How was it?
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 No.4916

>>4915
sex was good but the tantrums so werent. Her own family and friends cannot stand her. Shes not a bad nor dumb person. But goddamn she is infantile.

>>1737
>Thirties is the start of senescence

Youre twenty years too early man.
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 No.4920

>>4916
You're putting your dick in crazy. You're going to regret it.
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 No.4925

>>4920
I do regret it.
I even tell any bystanding male witnesses of her public meltdowns to never stick their dick in crazy.

And we did have a pregnancy scare almost three yeaes ago.
Thankfully it turns out it was psychosomatic.

Shes very delusional. Shes crafty as well though.
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 No.5457

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>>4298
Ok uyghurs quick update. Shit is just going slow as hell

We text several times a week, every week. In person everything seems going fine, she laughs at even the dumbest of my jokes, we talk personal stuff, and all that jazz that makes me think there's interest on her part. I wouldn't say crazy interest but hell there's something i could work with

But here's the problem. She never initiates, like literally never. She seems shy only around me which could actually be a good sign but motherfucker it's been 5 months already. Also a i've recently been suggesting studying together either in person or via call but she either changes topic or flat out refuses, yet she keeps showing interest? And continues being open to flirting like nothing happened. On top of that there's the odd day she seems to be pissed off about me and the next day be so talkative. I'm so confused bros

I'm starting to think she's either autistic or just dumb. Maybe she's a lesbian. Maybe she's playing with me. I don´t fucking know

My gut feeling tells me i should keep trying, what if i gave up but she was actually into me the whole time only that she was shy? That would haunt me forever
But also i'm getting fucking tired.

What do?
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 No.5458

>>5457
>My gut feeling tells me i should keep trying,
No, you should communicate openly with her all these frustrations you feel.
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 No.5459

>>5457
She wants you to be the one to initiate you retard. Women don't initiate. Men are the ones who initiate.
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 No.5460

>>5459
She likely doesn't want that either and is just going through the motions to keep him. We've already established that she has narcissistic traits.
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 No.5461

>>5458
Fuck no that would scare her out. You gotta keep it cool while also being assertive no need to spoil the whole thing like that.
Soy level advice
>>5459
AND IM TIRED OF INITIATING THATS ALL I FUCKING DO. Gonna wait a few weeks see if she changes her mind about meeting up to study but theres just so much i can do
>>5460
Yeah thats something i dont wwant to believe but you cant rule anything out.
She seems the insecure type though, could be that she just likes the attention… but hey aren't all women like that
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 No.5462

This thread makes me feel slightly better about missing out on young love.
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 No.5468

>>5461
she doesn't want these fake study "dates" dumbass ask her to explicitly go on a date just reading this is annoying as fuck I can't imagine her putting up with this retardation much longer
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 No.5471

>>5462
Glad i helped someone
>>5468
Ok mr. don juan give me some date ideas
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 No.5478

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>>5471
depends on the girl. if she's just a college bitch she'll be happy just getting coffee as an explicit date. if you don't go to a based state school or community college you might have to do something more high effort like any medium restaurant: Applebee's tier. If she says she likes something particular in the past do that, bitches love it when you "listen" to them in a limited capacity: "I like pho" you months later "I remembered you like pho do you want to go out on a date and get some"
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 No.5483

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>>5457
>She never initiates, like literally never
Maybe that's because she doesn't have to put any work @ all into just having a fucking retard eagerly & actively orbiting her, you fucking blind autist?
>On top of that there's the odd day she seems to be pissed off about me
>My gut feeling tells me
That's not your gut, those are your fucking balls which have to compensate for your nonexistant coombrain activity you deranged degenerate. Fucking kys faggot.
She's just pissed off that she can't openly dump you like that by telling you to g&fys already, that's why she has to put all this already cracking facade whenever you're gravitating over her eyes for this whole day once again.

Dough, why are you so fucking stupid.
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 No.5484

>>5483
could be this. but you'll never know unless you ask her on a date. in any case your relationship is quickly expiring at this stage. leap forward and embrace a new mode of social production or be left in the dust with your decaying relationship productive forces
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 No.5493

>>5462
Young love is not possible in our post-1985 society
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 No.5494

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>>5493
cope or rope I guess
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 No.5495

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You know what, nevermind, I'm giving up on this bitch. If she was interested she'll reach out at least once if not then that's it
>>5478
>if you don't go to a based state school or community college
I aint a burger what does that mean.
>>5483
Fuck u
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 No.5496

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>>5495
Just shoot your shot what are you afraid of? You're going to end it like this anyway so why not just go for it?
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 No.5497

if you're afraid of it ending or getting hurt then I'm sorry but you should have never been born. life is pain and you have to live with that. this will net you experience even if the only conclusion you can reach is "I shouldn't have waited so long". If you hadn't fucked the last girl you'd still be thinking you're entirely hopeless which no one is. now you're self sabotaging another potential lesson for no reason. you're stopping yourself from tripping, stumbling and learning to walk. you've got to live your life man
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 No.5498

>>5496
>>5497
uyghur i ran out of shots already. If she hasn't even accepted simply studying together she wont accept shit.
All i have left is confessing directly to her. Which i admit is scary and not sure if its worth it.

Just doomin rn
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 No.5499

Also i bet she's just as confused as me, probably isn't into me that very much but theres some interest in there she doesnt wanna completely rule out. Bear in mind she's extremely shy and kind of awkward

At least thats what i want to believe
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 No.5500

>>5498
dude studying together is infuriating if you want to go to the next level. people don't like to be led on like that. it sounds like you're going to find any excuse not to ask her out so I can't help you. If you want to permanently fellate yourself about the potential without ever realizing it, then there's no helping you. Not wanting to have a sexless faggot study time =/= not interested in you at all. just fucking ask her you spineless cuck
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 No.5503

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FUCKING HELL its all so tiresome

Why the fuck do i have to do all the heavy pulling. its not fair.

This is it. Im confessing to her in person tomorrow. All or nothing.
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 No.5504

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>>5500
UYGHUR SHES JUST GONNA SAY NO
shes just gonna say no

If you knew her youd know. Idk why shes so dry over text but in person she laughs and flirt back. Shes so autistic.
There are more positive signs than negative but my patience is running out.

All or nothing
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 No.5505

If it goes wrong i swear im slipping back into the incelsphere
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 No.5507

>>5504
This is why autism sould never be romanticised.

Leftypol is especially guilty of doing this especially if said autists are female.
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 No.5508

>>5507
true autists should be put in collective farms never to touch the internet again
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 No.5509

>>5505
I'm actually rooting for you good luck but don't be disheartened if it doesn't work out.
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 No.5510

>>5503
>>5505
>>5507
>>5508
>>5509
Nah I cucked out. I'm giving the fuck up
I GIVE THE FUCK UP

Lets see tomorrow. If i havent confessed in a week's time then its truly and irreparably over
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 No.5511

>>5510
COME ON MAN, YOU DON'T WANNA BE REGRETTING SOMETHING YOU DIDN'T DO FOR YEARS TO COME! JUST GIVE IT A SHOT. YOU GUYS ARE CLOSE, RIGHT? SHE'S BEEN FLIRTING BACK? THE SIGNS ARE THERE. JUST GO FOR IT. IF IT DOESN'T WORK OUT, WELL, YOU HAD A GF BEFORE, WHY NOT AGAIN? DON'T GIVE UP!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3Pr1_v7hsw
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 No.5515

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>>5510
it's only over when you give up
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 No.5517

'CAUSE I'M JUST A TEEENNNAAAGGGEEE DIRTBAG BAAABBYYYY
AND YOU'RE JUST A TEEENNNAAGGGEEEE DIRTBAG BBBAAAABBBYYY
YEAH I'M JUST A TEEENNNAAGGGGEEEE DIRTBAG BAAAABBBBYYYYY

WHOOOOOOO OOOOOOO OHHHHH OOOOO OHHHH HOOOO HOOOOO
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 No.5518

>>5517
I love that song!
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 No.5540

Well great, she just sent me this song.

I asked if she wanted to study. She said i don't know, then said no. I asked if she wanted to do anything after class, ANYTHING, she said no, without further elaboration. I recently stopped chasing her and now there are days it seems like she hates me for no reason

Now wtf you mean "Make you mine". JUST DO IT BITCH
MAKE ME YOURS THEN I'M SO FUCKING CONFUSED
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 No.5542

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Now wtf do i do

If I chase her, she gets awkward and pulls away.
If I don't, she will give mixed signals she's interested and pull back in

WTF DO I DO GOD PLEASE HELP ME
I DIDNT ASK FOR THIS MAKE UP YOUR FUCKING MIND MY HEAD HURTS OF SO MUCH THINKING ABOUT THIS SHIT COME OOOOOONN
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 No.5543

>>5542
next time you meet her physically irl, grab her and push her up against the wall. tell her, "move away if you don't want to get kissed", and move in for the kiss. you'll know then
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 No.5544

>>5543
This is literally rape.
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 No.5545

>>5542
ask to meet her somewhere irl. when u meet her irl, tell her that you want to tell her something. ask her what she's going to do on her birthday. then give her a cellphone case that you bought because she said she needed one last time (this also shows that you do listen to her)

>>5544
its supposed to be romantic. like in the books, tv, films, maybe music, etc. also, in the proposed plan he does tell her she can move away, so..
positive point: it shows assertiveness on his part (since she gives mixed signals, seemingly not wanting to make the move herself), if it brings desired results than it will have paid off
negative point: possibly seen as non-consensual MeToo

well if we dont give good advice then the bad advice wins. hes gonna be stuck here with us if we dont try our best to help him
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 No.5546

>>5545
>it shows assertiveness on his part
Assertiveness only works for chad, otherwise it is sexual assault.
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 No.5547

>>5540
>>5542
Just move on OP you're clearly not an incel so can have sex with other girls.
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 No.5548

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>>5542
you stupid bastard. I told you studying isn't going to work now you've pissed her off by being so gay and autistic. I told you to ask her on a date explicitly but you're too much of a pussy bitch and now it might be too late. You gave up you worthless bitch. Why didn't you just listen and man up and ask her?
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 No.5549

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>>5545
listen to this guy too it sounds like he has also touched a woman before
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 No.5550

>>5546
as if you would know, subhuman. this thread is for people who are wanted at one point only. not hopeless trash like you
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 No.5551

>>5550
I will force my cock up your asshole
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 No.5552

>>5551
at least you're admitting you're a faggot now. all that's left is for you to chop your dick off you putrid autistic troon
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 No.5553

>>5552
I'm not asiatic I have scottish heritage
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 No.5554

>>5542
what if u ask her, "arent u lonely" then gently touch her hand or arm and caress it.

what about asking her to come to a playground at night, sit on the swings next to each other. hold a boxed cake in ur hands, this will trigger her curiosity like, "oh, is that for me? hmm" and also her appetite/stomach. ask her what shes doing for Christmas. then tell her that during Christmas, couples sometimes eat cake together. ask if she has a boyfriend. if she says she doesnt, tell her youre not dating anyone either.
>"do you like [flavor type] cake?"
and at some point, confess while giving her the cake
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 No.5555

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>>5553
then what's your clan, faggot? I want motto I want tartans or you're a lying bitch
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 No.5556

>>5554
what if you take a bite of your sandwich and pinch her nose so she has to breathe out of her mouth then force feed her your pre-masticated Arby's as a sign of goodwill and devotion? When you're done you can say "Hmmmm, did you like my beef? BC I would like to get my lips around yours!" Then start performing romantic cunnilingus in the Arby's bathroom.

If she doesn't then just don't tell her you spiked her jamocha shake with quaaludes. Take her home and let her sleep on her couch. When she wakes up tell her that she has to eat from a bowl of hard-boiled eggs.
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 No.5557

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>>5542
what if you start wearing perfume around her and see if she notices it like maybe when she hugs u (do you guys have physical contact/skinship?) or when she sits next to you.
pic related
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 No.5558

>>5557
faggot shit he needs to be direct and ask her out on a date or fuck off
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 No.5559

Incredible.
The best pieces of advice we can collectively come up with for OP are "try wearing perfume" and "rape her". It's no wonder we're all incels.
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 No.5560

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>>5559
you're an incel because you're an autistic faggot who doesn't understand the difference between rape and desired advances. It will never be necessary for you to learn but I'm sure you can eventually postulate of the existence of someone wanting someone else to take charge in a relationship.

You're right about the perfume idea though it is retarded on the face of it. That type of thing is what you experiment with when you're already in a relationship.
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 No.5561

>>5559
That is a misrepresentation of my advice, I strenuously deny those allegations as demonstrably false and slanderous. And when OP comes back you will find out you're contradicted by the new extensive detailed evidence.
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 No.5562

OP YOU FAT Jewish nigger
you can basically consider her sending the song to you as a final warning. don't make the poor girl beg. ask her to go on a date with you NOW before you're out of time.
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 No.5563

>>5560
>It will never be necessary for you to learn
Why are you being so mean?

>>5561
I too am anxiously awaiting OP's update on the rape attempt.
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 No.5564

>>5562
>muh poor girl
feminoid emasculated man-slave

if she wants to fuck him she should say so, not play these retarded feminoid mind games
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 No.5565

>>5560
"desired advances" are Chad advances you bluepilled retard
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 No.5566

Bluepilled cucks not worshipping women because of their manipulative neoteny challenge (Impossible)
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 No.5567

OP, will you invite me to the wedding? I promise I'll dress up and act my best.
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 No.5568

>>5564
How's adiivka doing?
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 No.6661

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Well boys, long time no update

She's still dropping hits although much more rarely and now I'm even more hopeless. Did I miss my chance? It sucks so much

Also been wondering if i even like her that much. Would i be willing to be with someone this socially retarded? Though she just like me fr
School ends in a few weeks and man i don't know how to feel kinda feeling nostalgic that all the fantasies in my head will probably be gone when i stop seeing her regularly

Just kms

>>5559
Yeah Iḿ glad i didn't listen to you retards

Also note that i DID ask her out but apparently to all of you don juans meeting up to study isnt a date lmao
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 No.6662

Also I tried giving her the silent treatment but it backfired WHAT CAN I FUCKING DO IVE TRIED EVERYTHING ALREADY
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 No.6663

>>6661
*hints
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 No.6666

>>6661
Bruh, she's playing you like an XBox. Just sleep with a prostitute for now and them book a flight overseas to find a relationship.
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 No.6667

>>6666
I'd advise against seeing a prostitute. Not a good habit to get into.
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 No.6669

>>6661
yes uyghur it probably is too late should have listened to me >>5548
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 No.6670

>>6669
She lowkey flirts IRL but then takes ages to reply to texts. Other times she ignores IRL but be talkative over text. It's so bizarre
>>6666
>Bruh, she's playing you like an XBox
Either that or she's socially stunted and retard can't make up her mind
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 No.6671

Bros I feel i'm starting to hate her and i really don't want it to end lik this. Gonna do one last charge and i'll update in a few weeks
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 No.6672

>>6670
>Either that or she's socially stunted and retard can't make up her mind
OMG, just move on already.
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 No.6676

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>>6670
You're the one who's stunted and apparently unaware of any modicum of dating culture. You'd know that it's your duty to initiate a relationship so don't come crying like a pathetic faggot when it sounds like she did her part to show interest and you fumbled like a faggot. You deserve this.
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 No.6680

This thread reminds me of a quote from Charles Darwin: "the definition of insanity is doing the exact same fucking thing over and over again expecting shit to change"
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 No.6684

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>>6680
uygha got laid once. this time she didn't just fall into his lap is the difference. he did the same thing by not doing anything but the conditions changed around him and he was unwilling to adapt. She made the fucking pass but he was too stupid to move a few steps to catch it thinking: "It fell right into my hands last time so why not this time?!" tl;dr op is a coward faggot with no initiative
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 No.6690

>>6680
I thought einstein said that.
But theres also the inverse:
Doing different random shit and expecting the same result.
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 No.6761

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Well so this is the last week of class. I've already decided I'm gonna confess to her one of these days, fuck it, ain't got nothing to lose anymore.
It hurts inside bros… it hurts inside.
>>6676
>>6684
Nah mate you're dyslexic. Read again and see that I've already tried most of what I could and still it seems she'll give mixed signals till god knows when. I'm probably gonna blow my chances away 99% with this plan but at least my mind will be at peace.

Man why do I fall so hard for these unstable type women
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 No.6771

>>6761
"uh so… do you want to go study" isn't an explicit date you retarded faggot fuck off
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 No.6778

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Well. That was it. There's no coming back from here.

I just confessed via voice message. It took me half an hour to spit out a 20 seconds message but hey. I've put my phone on airplane mode until tomorrow so i don't deal with notification anxiety.
Today was the last day of class. There's little chance i'd see her again until september and that is if we even got in the same class which there was little chance of because of reasons. And anyway after the summer any sort of feelings that might be there would dissipate and I can't afford to let her keep living rent free in my mind.

So I figured there was little if nothing to lose. That was my last shot, friendly fire if you will
I hope anons respect my decision. Let me kill her before she kills me.

There's no coming fucking back. I feel void but at the same time kind of relieved
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 No.6779

>>6778
Tell us what her response is anon. I am too invested in this love story.
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 No.6780

>>6778
pathetic you've set yourself up for failure and for what? to vindicate your own misguided self hatred and to continue your own self sabotage?
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 No.6783

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Said she just wanna be classmates
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 No.6784

>>6783
>leave the site for awhile
>come back to this
no… this isn't how this was supposed to go
you were supposed to win and it'd mean there's hope for me too
noooo!!!!!!!!
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 No.6785

>>6783
I wouldn't even be mad at least you got to get pissed on.
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 No.6830

>>5508
>true autists should be put in collective farms
State farms. Our production is not so underdeveloped anymore to rely on enforced collective private property relations.

>>5510
Stupid ass uyghur. Things are done PRESENTLY, not in the future, not in the past but right fucking now. Either you do shit rn or shit never even xisted in the 1st place you stupid fucking fuck.

>>6783
kek. Stupid fucking cunt, wh@ did I tell ya back then you fucking retard? kys already & take that seething sex offender any% retard along with you will ya?
How much fucking time did you even waste on this shit holy fuck.
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 No.6968

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Well what the actual fuck. I wasn't expecting this.

This other classmate of us, who is really out of my league like I'm talking model 9/10 looks and personality all of a sudden is liking my stories and texted me. I'm legit dumbfounded I don't know if this is a prank or some shit it really is catching me off guard

I know they're close to each other so there's a chance she knows i fancy her friend so she got jealous or some shit. Or maybe she's just very social and likes to talk? but that doesn't make much sense I mean in person we have barely talked to each other outside of group settings you know, we are acquaintances if that.

She's kinda intimidating honestly. So far we've only talked about our music tastes and dumb shit like that but man the conversation doesn't seem to stop… really don't know how to feel rn

I mean she never caught my eye because in my mind i had literally 0.1% chance so why bother. But now I'm fucking confused because I'm still kinda into the other girl I confessed to, I mean she been on my mind for like 8 months it cant go away easily and now I'm scared of developing new feelings for this girl who idk if she's messing with me or probably will break my heart…

What the hell. This can turn out amazingly or terribly bad there's no in between

Final boss type shit
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 No.6969

All i know is that if i really hit the jackpot with this girl it's gonna wreck their friendship gonna send that other girl to therapy i swear

>>6830
Cope bitch
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 No.6970

Anyway chances are shes just an attentionwhore. But let a man dream goddammit
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 No.6971

>>6968
>9/10 looks and personality
What is 9/10 personality?
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 No.6972

>>6971
NTA but a 9/10 personality means he hasn't actually spent any time with her yet and she mainly exists in his head.
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 No.6978

>>6968
She probably wants something from you. That's the only time femoids talk to incels. It could be validation, it could be money, whatever it is just keep your guard up.
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 No.6979

>>6968
Why don't you ask her to hang out and go do something? Like rock climbing idk
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 No.6981

>>6968
I've seen this movie one too many times…
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 No.6982

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>>6978
>>6979
>>6981
Nah nevermind, conversation fizzled out my incel ass was fantasizing again. Guess shes just social media addicted and hits people up randomly.

I managed to hint to her that a like her friend and she told me something like she already knew, and that her friend doesn't want a relationship rn but that i should keep talking to her normally and shit… what did she mean bros… Either that's true and there's hope or she lying to not hurt my feelings…
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 No.6983

>>5540
>Make You Mine
>music video is about two woman being into each other
uygha shes gay
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 No.7565

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Aight small update. We have barely talked over the summer, all initiated by me ofc and it wasn't more than a few texts. That was the first few weeks, then i felt shit was off and said something like maybe I should stop talking to you and she went ok sure. I was tryna heal and didn't text for like a month, until I fell and replied to one of her IG stories, which surprisingly she texted back and seemed decently engaged in talking.

So i said whatever and sent her a meme over whatsapp, and she went like don't talk to me again. Like bitch we were talking normally like yesterday just in a different app what the hell. And that is not to say some hints that happened over Instagram, like in the notes where you can share a song I would post a song and like 5 mins later she shared one titled "how to love me" or some shit like that. I wouldn't say it happened all that often but she's done stuff like that more than once

I know this sounds so fucking autistic but it's what it is.

Now we are going back to class, and thankfully we are in different classes so only really see each other in the halls or in our way to/out of class. Haven't talked to her in person (yet) I don't wanna risk that, so a few days ago i texted her like "Can't I talk already?", i thought she was gonna ghost but surprisingly she brought the issue up herself. She said that she "doesn't want anything with me and it's worse if we talk" so "that's the reason i don't wanna talk to you", but also said like "you do whatever".

Now, to me that sounded like she was in a relationship and i hinted to it, she said she "doesn't want anything with no one", aight i said, i brought up those hints but she denied them like bish you know it's true. Like when we were in the talking stage she doesn't know how to lie its kinda cute when she tries

Now back to:
>said that she "doesn't want anything with me and it's worse if we talk" so "that's the reason i don't wanna talk to you"
It's a rough translation but its basically what she said. Knowing how autistic this bish is wouldn't surprise me she actually has some interest and is self-sabotaging, i've done that in the past its def not uncommon. And then:
>"you do whatever"
Now idk what to do should i talk to her or not. I mean I probably will in the next few days i can't hold myself this is driving me crazy imma just pass by her side and say bye, simple as that. It feels i'm starting back from zero again fucking hell

Finally i told her this, that i felt she was afraid of falling for someone. She left it on seen. No response is also a response, if she disagreed she would ave denied it like she denied the hints. Or maybe I'm looking too much into it

So at this point she's either a) retarded, b) lied and has a bf, c) is a closeted lesbian. Maybe all three. All i know is that when we lock eyes she looks like she either wants to kill me or fuck me no in between.
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 No.7566

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>>7565
Now for me to be this obsessed you may think this is some kind of stacy but nothing further from the truth. She's fugly, unfeminine, probably somewhat neurodivergent, i could aim for a higher league but you know what I love that, i fucking adore her she's funny and witty and has character and assertiveness, is honest (sometimes a little too much) and even nurturing in her own way, for me I found an unicorn i won't let this one slide. We'll get there bros.
Trust the process

TRUST THE PROCESS
<33333
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 No.7567

>>7565
Is it possible that she was nice to you on instagram and then told you to fuck off in DMs because instagram is public and she didn't want to seem like a bitch in front of all her friends?

>>7566
This whole post reminded me why men are the better sex. I really think you should move on anon but I admire your perseverance and dedication to this hoe.

Also post the meme you sent her.
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 No.7697

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LMFAO i managed to fuck this up even further. I can only laugh now.

Long story short, she unfollowed me on IG and i got pissed off and blocked her. I think she realized and proceeded to block me too. Now i'm still blocked after weeks and im going completely insane. I know it's unhealthy but man, had i held myself i could have just waited some time to send her a follow request again and act like nothing happened. Now i think shes angry

Is it over bros? be honest

We keep running into each other and stuff and I know I trigger her like crazy. The other day she was with a group of classmates and i joined them, the moment I appeared she started playing w her hair and acting like she was on the phone lmfao, I know it because she has done it in the past. I didn't say a word to her 1 on 1 though just interacted via the group.

Other times she looks from the distance and then averts her gaze. LIKE BITCH I KNOW YOURE A FUCKING SCHIZO I KNOW IM IN YOUR MIND. Not nearly as much a you're in mine, but im in it.

The real opposite of love is indifference, not avoidance, and for better or worse she cares about me. True rejection would be not giving a flying fuck weather i talk to her or not or weather i exist, but she's scared of something not even her knows

So far i've been giving her some handwritten notes with little drawings and shit telling her there's no need to cut communication, and that i promise not to talk about a relationship if it triggers her. She takes them every time no question asked, again if she truly didnt give a fuck abt me she wouldnt take them period

She never told me she didnt like me she mostly said she didn't want a relationship. BUT I NEED COMMUNICATION to know if it's worth waiting for her or if there's even a chance to begin with before i keep falling down this spiral of delusion. Every day i feel this shit is consuming me which i don't really mind because the tiniest reciprocation would outweigh the bad and make me the happiest mf on earth.

At this rate I'm posting the next update from jail
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 No.7699

>>7697
It sounds like you're being clingy.
And she's avoidant and BPD.
I think both of you need therapy.
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 No.7701

>>7699
Fuggin' this. Probably both raised by single moms. Western women are completely held unaccountable for the emotional damage they inflict.
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 No.7702

>>7697
>leftoids being this dependent on a cunt
It's over.
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 No.7703

>>7701
>muh single moms

if paternal abscence is the doagnosis for all personal problems, it shows that fatgers are highly inefficient.
Alot of moral/empathetic deficients had dads growing up.

Paternal influence (or lack thereof) is not a good factor of virtue.

I think its the lack life skills training done in schools and homes.

Society has been taught that aging alone brings skills.
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 No.7704

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>>7699
We can be each other's therapy
>>7701
I have a dad he's kind of a pussy though so maybe your right. Dunno much about her family dynamics but i see her dad every now and then and seems like a strongman type dude
>>7702
The most beautiful cunt i've seen in my entire god forsaken life that is
>>7567
>I really think you should move on anon but I admire your perseverance and dedication to this hoe.
Thanks anon tho it might be an ego thing at this point. Right now i could settle for making her laugh again that shit gave me a reason to live
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 No.7707

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>>7704
>We can be each other's therapy

Read "Killing Stalking".
(Pics related)

>I have a dad he's kind of a pussy though so maybe your right. Dunno much about her family dynamics but i see her dad every now and then and seems like a strongman type dude

Female narcissism is due to fathers spoiling their daughters.
Alot of macho guys often are the biggest simps for their daughters.
"Fatherlessness" is a meme for female misbehavior.

>Thanks anon tho it might be an ego thing at this point. Right now i could settle for making her laugh again that shit gave me a reason to live

Again refer to pics related

>The most beautiful cunt i've seen in my entire god forsaken life that is

For the last time, refer to pics related
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 No.7708

>>7567
>This whole post reminded me why men are the better sex. I really think you should move on anon but I admire your perseverance and dedication to this hoe.

It's unfortunate that men are actively discouraged from cosmetic self-care.
Beauty is wrongfully assigned only to women.

Men are expected to be warrior-butlers and figure shit out with little to no guidance nor abilities.

Hence, men are always dumb enough to throw away all self-value towards women.

This is why women act up the way they do in relationships.

Chivalry is toxic and cringe.
And those are words I don't like to use normally because of how overused they are.
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 No.7709

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>>7703
>t. coping neglected child.
This deflection is the very reason why failed patenting is cited so much. Boomers, Gen Xers and society in general still refuse to take responsibility for their role in the failings of their children.
All the While every major psychological study will say that yes, a person's life is deeply effected by their upbringing to the point that it basically determines their fate, you still see people denying this openly as if it's some sort of truism.
Obviously not every outcome can be connected to parenting, but since no credence is given to this despite overwhelming evidence it continues to persist as a fixture in discourse.
>TL;DR yes it is your parent's fault that you're fucked up, and no it's not simply a product of poverty or trauma.
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 No.7710

>>7709
Again, fatherlessness is misunderstood and overused for every single incident of faux pas.

Also, ironic coming from you calling me a neglected child when you're on an imageboard.

Again, the real problem isnt fatherlessness,
It's rather the over-promoting that age numbers are virtue points.
Parenting should require mandatory training and licensing.
Schools need to bring back practical skills such as cooking, finances, home repair, childrearing, etc.
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 No.7711

>>7710
It's not, see this 80 year study showing that single mothers cause crime to go up in an area, not poverty.
https://leftychan.net/R9K/res/5139.html
You've clearly never seriously traveled or lived outside the US. You'll meet many families and children far poor than those in the states that are far more well adjusted.
This white knighting simping of women is why the left is in the woods with men.
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 No.7712

>>7711
Why not blame both the single mother AND the man that decided to leave?
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 No.7713

>>7711
Maybe beacuse for most of human history, society was always patriarchal, so single moms had no power?

Again, the real problem is the reckless overpromotion of marriage and parenthood as automatic luxuries of adulthood.
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 No.7714

>>7709
>This deflection is the very reason why failed patenting is cited so much. Boomers, Gen Xers and society in general still refuse to take responsibility for their role in the failings of their children.


Theres a thread on rchan where millennials are dunking on zoomers for having the same flaws as them.

Apparetly Millennials have gotten the same lack of self-awareness as their boomer elders now.

https://boards.4chan.org/gif/thread/28073389#p28078724
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 No.7715

>>7711
>sources are fix family courts dot com and single mother resources dot com

>FFC is owned by some conservashit texas company

Not surprising. Anyway the post you linked is bullshit and you're a retard for believing it.
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 No.7717

>>7715

>sources are fix family courts dot com and single mother resources dot com

That's just the name of the website man hating femcel. Here are the sources cited
Sources:
House Ways and Means Committee, Nonmarital Births to Adults and Teenagers and Federal Strategies to Reduce Nonmarital Pregnancies, appendix “M”, 2003
The Longevity Project, by Howard S. Friedman and Leslie R. Martin (Hudson Street Press) 0020
PubMed
The Annie E. Casey Foundation
U.S. Census Bureau
Single Mother Guide, "Single Mother Statistics," accessed July 15, 2023, https://singlemotherguide.com/single-mother-statistics/.
C.C. Harper and S.S. McLanahan, “Father Absence and Youth Incarceration,” Paper presented at the Annual Meeting of the American Sociological Assoc., San Francisco, CA, 1998.
Progressive Policy Institute, 1990, quoted by David Blankenhorn, “Fatherless America: Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem,” New York, Harper Perennial, 1996, p.31.
D.A. Smith and G.R. Jarjoura, “Social Structure and Criminal Victimization,” Journal of Research in Crime and Delinquency 25. 1988.
Wade Horn, “Why There Is No Substitute For Parents,” IMPRIMIS 26, NO.6, June 1997
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 No.7722

>>7717
people like to shit on single moms but most single moms are result of dads being bored/overwhelmed by the prospect of parenting.

Most dads if theyre engaged with the kids will often turn violent amd angry at the slightest trouble.

People whom are raised by si gle dads often have to raise themselves or deal with pissy mancunts.

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