>>11415i want to push back on you a little bit, i do think that sex and romance are really really important and valuable parts of the human experience, not just on a stupid biological level (muh perpetuating the species) either
nearly every form of society tried to control/manage sex and love, i view that as a testament to how fundamentally human such things are… of course, things like violence are also very human and societies have tried to control it as well, but i dont think you can fairly equate the two
i mean, okay sure sex and love shouldnt be rights either, but i really dont want to live in a world where you have to fight like hell every day against a rigged system just to have a taste of something not only "natural" but also in many cases incredibly rewarding, and calling that a privilege gives off the impression that such a state of affairs is acceptable, which strikes me as a cruel
i want to get rid of the social, political and economic barriers to love; and yes, those things really do exist… people didnt magically become awkward moralizing prudes or hyper-judgmental jerks, we live in a society
the specific thing im taking issue with here is more with the expression of that discontent, precisely because it denies the existence of those causes
imo are incels are more aware of this, ironically though since they simultaneously obscure it with their ideology